Thursday, September 1, 2011

Ch-ch-ch-ch-Changes!

What follows is the story of how I ended up moving from Mexico City to Barcelona. Many of you know the basics, so feel free to skip this installment if you like. The new and predictibly more exciting Barce stuff will begin flowing soon. In the meantime, feel free to drop me a line at strawdogs66@hotmail.com on what you’re up to. I promise I will read it!!


Well, after four marvelous years in Mexico, Miguelito is moving on to new adventures in Barcelona, Catalunya, Spain. For most of you, this news is not a big surprise. Given the length of time since the decision was officially made—June 9—and my use of the new “social media” a la Facebook, the cat has long been out of the bag. Still, I thought a more formal explanation was in order to provide details to those not so in the inner-loop of my life, serve as a cathartic exercise for myself, and place a book-end of “closure” on my Miguelito in Mexico blog. (That reminds me, I need a new name for this thing. Any suggestions?)


HOW and WHY? I was all signed up and ready to hit the ISS and Search Associates fairs in San Francisco in early February in order to get an administrative/instructional support position somewhere. There were lots of prospects out there and I was excited. Then, the position of Academic Dean opened up again at our school. After being one of two finalists for the same position two years earlier, and in the meantime taking over as lead IB history teacher, serving as a successful social studies department head and MUN director, continued support from a large number of the staff, and unyielding dedication to the institution (not to mention the universally acknowledged disaster of the previous person’s tenure)—I figured my time had come. The only catch—I’d have to skip the fairs this year in order to do the interview. I knew nothing was certain, but felt the odds were in my favor. And besides, Ale was (we mistakenly believed at the time) pregnant, and perhaps starting a new job in another country with a new baby was not such a great idea. So, I skipped the fairs (missing a chance to see just what a hole in the wall my friend Andy lived in in SF) and put all my eggs in the ASF basket. I prepared long and hard and thought I represented myself well at the interview, but it seems (both from my impressions of the experience and reports from those on the panel) that the powers that be had other ideas (and other people) already in mind for this position. And so, for the second time I received the thanks-but-no-thanks response.


I was disappointed, no doubt, but I decided I’d simply enjoy a fifth year in Mexico, having a relatively easy time teaching the IB and MUN courses I’d already developed. Come next February, I’d hit the job fairs and not leave until I’d secured an administrative position somewhere.


However…


I kept receiving these updated emails from the job recruiting companies about openings. I ignored them for the most part, thinking I’d already committed to one more year. Most of the admin jobs were gone and I decided I wasn’t interested in a lateral move to teach somewhere else, when another year in Mexico would have been so relatively easy. Besides, as the spring wore on, most of the openings were for schools in desirable places like Somalia, Afghanistan and Libya. OK, maybe that’s an exaggeration, but not by too much. Given the poor prospects still available and my prospects for a final easy year at ASF, I was simply deleting the updates without reading them. Then one day—bored I guess—I opened one up. And there it was: IB History Teacher at the American School of Barcelona. Now, THIS might be worth a lateral move after all. Still, how many people must be applying to work in such a desirable city? And how many are not 45 year old married guys with a non-teaching spouse and a kid that’s going to cost them tuition? Probably lots. Still, Barcelona... It couldn’t hurt to send in my resume, right?


So, I did. And the next thing I know I was doing a Skype interview with the high school principal. Then follow up interviews with the director. And something very pleasant was happening during these discussions—there was a lot of obvious connection and agreement. Lots of smiling and head nodding and yesing, and I hear-youing. Lots of feeling like there was a shared sense of what good educational theory and practice was all about. This was a feeling I had not experienced so much recent years. And I liked it. I guess they liked it too, because they offered me the job.


THEN WHAT? Keep in mind, this was June 9th. Most international schools have their hiring well completed by then; after all there are visas and moving arrangements to make, and these can take time. For Ale and I—smack in the midst of buying our second apartment with a government employee program were suddenly under the gun to wrap the deal up before I went off the books at ASF. Thank Vishnu, the director of Human Capital had the heart to let my contract continue to the end of its natural cycle in August so we could make this purchase happen. After a lot of Mexican red tape, we finally prevailed. Next (after some time back in NJ) was a flurry of packing our stuff and furnishing the new apartment. We’ve managed to secure new ASF teachers as tenants—which was a HUGE relief. A buddy of mine, also going to ASB, has ordered a large transport container (think: The Wire, Season Two) and has room for us to sublet in there; though, honestly, there’s not much stuff we taking. Some clothes, books, computers and my family. Packing for this move has made me realize that I am not a materialistic person at all. That’s was a nice realization to have.


We also had some hoops to jump through with the Spanish embassy, which proved to be almost as confusing as Mexican beauracracy, changing the requirements with each visit, differing information between the paper forms and those on the website, vague explanations to questions. Ale said—“Hey, where do you think we learned it from? We got the good looking and you got the smart!” However, the application is in and our fingers are crossed. As expected, the visas were not ready when I flew out two weeks ago. The virtual national shut-down that appears to take place in Spain during August does not appear to be helping.


I stayed in a temporary place right near Las Ramblas during my first week while I met the other ASB newbies, took some Spanish classes and secured an apartment uptown in the neighborhood of Sarria. The city is quite amazing. I arrived just in time for the Gracia street festival that lasts a week, which includes the streets in the neighborhood decorating their streets in themes, using recycled materials, in a competition. There was some amazing designs to see and some wild times in the evenings with food, booze and music everywhere.


Compared with my beloved Mexico, the food and the weather here have been a bit of a disappointment so far, (the weather too hot, the food not too hot) but I have a feeling both will improve with time. The other new teachers seem like a good bunch, but I don’t see too many replacements for the many I came to love so much in Mexico. Again, time will tell. I will say the director and the admin team here continue to impress. That, in and of itself, is exciting. Being away from Ale and Miguel for so long has proved quite difficult, especially for her, with the two year old in tow. So, we’ve decided to have them come over soon, even if it means paying for all three of us to return to collect our visas. In the meantime, I’m working my way through the new staff orientation at work and continuing to settle into my new life in Barcelona. Tales of such are sure to follow. Stay tuned!






Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Heeee's baaaaaack...


Hello Everyone, it’s Miguelito in Mexico!

I know it’s been a long time since you’ve heard from me, but, quite frankly, I’ve been busy. (Well, and, perhaps even more frankly, I can be lazy and lacking in focus.) Between the demands of the job—which often include working at home—and the demands of Miguel the boy-wonder—which can be draining of both time and energy—I often have difficulty moving from thoughts of writing up a blog update to the actual typing of one. It always seems like a bad time to get started because I won’t be able to finish, or maybe because I don’t feel I have a new tale of adventure with which to entertain.


My good friend Jamesthemathteacher has inspired me to redouble my efforts at more regular communication in the blog format. He is good for one or so a month these days and I do enjoy catching up with him, as it were, via his email alerts. It doesn’t take too much effort to drop him a quick couple of lines back, and presto, we’ve kept in contact. Honestly, I wish more of my friends and family would shoot out these types of updates so I could know what is up with them. Anyway, not only is James better at blog regularity, he’s also better at keeping them short enough to want to read them all in one sitting, which I’m going to work on from now on. If I’ve got a whale of a yarn, I’ll do installments like I started to do last year. But, I’m going to work on short and sweet.


When I first started this blog, it was primarily for friends and family in the states, to let them know what I was up to and to offer some insight into the Mexican ex-pat experience. After 3 ½ years (can you believe it!?) I feel like I’ve done a pretty good job of offering a sense of what life is like here. And it’s still quite good, but feels more and more like “home” and less like the new place. However, I’ve made so many new friends here that have moved on to new places, I’m starting to feel I need to make an effort at just sending out some basic updates and less like I need to write an epic tale of Mexican hijinks.


So, here it goes:


It’s been a great year since I last logged one of these. Miguel continues to grow and continues to be a beautiful, special boy. We found him a new guarderia that he doesn’t cry at every time we drop him off, so we are happy about that. It’s not free like the state-run day care we gave up on, but it’s only about 12 dollars a day.


My brother came to visit for spring break and I really enjoyed showing him around. Will, Avi and Juan came at the end of the school year to visit and we headed to Chicago to see them over Thanksgiving. Freaking cold is all I’ll say. Well, that and I’d like to see Chicago again not during the winter. More good buddies also moved on from ASF and we wish you all well.


I continued to squeeze out some travel, spending a week in Holland last winter on a school MUN trip, hitting Chiapas last summer for some Spanish classes and exploration and a weekend trip to the desert town of Real de Catorce. Together with Ale and Miguel, we visited another sweet Hacienda along with beach trips to Mazatlan and Puerto Vallarta.


I took on the MUN class this year (no one else dumbest enough to do it?), which is bound to add some stress to my life as we head through the next few months of planning the two day conference for 900 students. But, generally work is enjoyable. Even so, I’m going to take a look at some opportunities in administration out there over the next month or so. I’ll be heading to San Fran for a job fair in February and looking into some openings here at ASF as well. I could continue to be Miguelito in Mexico, or maybe I’ll become Miguelito in Shanghai. We’ll see…


Though I haven’t written much over the past year, I have managed to take a lot of pictures, including a shit-ton of pictures of Miguel, including some videos. That’s mainly the point of this message—check out these pictures.


http://www.flickr.com/photos/miguelito2066/ (click on a set, then slideshow)


In the meantime, I’ll be working on my next update. I swear.


PS. There was something else I wanted to say…Oh, yeah, we’re pregnant!